Pleasure and pain. That's what BDSM is , right? Pleasure. To give pleasure. To receive pleasure. No matter what role I take, my foremost goal with my partner is pleasure. I have few things that turn me off and so am pretty willing to experiment or do whatever they want me to do. My motto …
BDSM in and out of the bedroom.
It's strange, but our society has almost accepted the fact of having kinks in the bedroom. Even if it still isn't publicly acknowledged, everyone still knows about it and has accepted that there are kinkers out there. But what people still find strange is that what you define yourself in the bedroom can also have …
Educate yourself
Whenever I looked up "BDSM" there is always one article about the difference between abuse and BDSM or how "vanillas" will never except us. It scares me to think there are still people who abuse others under the name of BDSM. This is why I always make a point to tell my readers to be …
That rush
You know what I'm talking about. That rush you get when your inner kinky side starts oozing out into the light of day. It can be a casual conversation with a friend or just a simple action that reminds you of your darker side. It's almost breath-taking. The moment when you admit to your kink …
What does it take to be a submissive?
Here are a few things to know about how to be a submissive: 1. Know yourself;your limits and your expectations. 2. Know when to submit and when not to. 3. Never allow yourself to feel inferior, unless this is desired by you. 4. Be true to what you want and what you need. 5. Don't …
favorite image quotes
This is something both pleasant to say and hear.
The Caring Dominant
This may sound strange to you. Isn't it all about the Dominant taking control and using their Dominance to gey the submissive to do things? Not at all. There are multiple types of Doms and the one I'm talking about today is the caring Dom. I identify most with this, since I'm a giving person. …
BDSM truly
I don't know if everyone knows this. They should, but I think when people hear submissive they think they can do whatever they want. That is not true. I am a very stubborn, intelligent, and strong woman. I do identify as a submissive with some Dominant tendencies...I'm sure there is a label for that, but …
Nice Ass
How to take care of your ass.... Don't be shy, we know that if your someone who likes their ass played with in any way, you want it to look nice, don't you? Yeah, I thought so. Don't feel silly for wanting to work on your ass. Here are a few tips: 1. Put lotion …
BDSM and you
I have talked about how important it is to do your own exploration of BDSM if you are with a partner. But what about when you aren't? Does that mean you can't enjoy the delicious deeds of being kinky? No. While you are by yourself, explore yourself. Test out the things you may be afraid …
