Pleasure

Pleasure and pain. That's what BDSM is , right? Pleasure. To give pleasure. To receive pleasure.  No matter what role I take, my foremost goal with my partner is pleasure. I have few things that turn me off and so am pretty willing to experiment or do whatever they want me to do.  My motto …

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 BDSM in and out of the bedroom.

It's strange, but our society has almost accepted the fact of having kinks in the bedroom. Even if it still isn't publicly acknowledged, everyone still knows about it and has accepted that there are kinkers out there.  But what people still find strange is that what you define yourself in the bedroom can also have …

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What does it take to be a submissive?

Here are a few things to know about how to be a submissive: 1. Know yourself;your limits and your expectations. 2. Know when to submit and when not to.  3. Never allow yourself to feel inferior, unless this is desired by you.  4. Be true to what you want and what you need.  5. Don't …

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The Caring Dominant

This may sound strange to you.   Isn't it all about the Dominant taking control and using their Dominance to gey the submissive to do things? Not at all. There are multiple types of Doms and the one I'm talking about today is the caring Dom.  I identify most with this, since I'm a giving person.  …

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