I thought it would be interesting to do a post catered to those curious “vanillas”, or young kinkers.
So you’re curious about BDSM and you don’t know what to do about it. Well, first off, you have come to the right place. This blog is all for you. I don’t how many of you actually read this, but I hope that I help in some way.
If you learn anything from my blog it’s this: research, research, research.
Really, in my opinion, you should research a bit before having sex, that way you and your partner can have the best shot the first time you do it together.
Even if you don’t have a partner, it doesn’t matter.
If you aren’t really much of a reader, well then…you won’t be reading this. However, still, a good way to know what your likes and dislikes are simply through porn.
That’s a shocker. Watch different porn types. See what you like. And if you are like me, you could also find a sexy BDSM story that works, because sometimes you would rather experience the kink and not see it. The point is to get an idea of what you like before you start something with another person.
If you find that you really like the idea of BDSM, continue research. However, now lets go onto some more steps:
- Find another person who is into BDSM, or at least a person you can talk to about it.
- Find multiple people who are into BDSM and whose story of how they came to realise it or what they are into, so that you can really learn from them. They could be anybody, even someone online. Just make friends. Do not be by yourself in this.
Allright, just shoot me an email if you have any questions for me.