BDSM and you

I have talked about how important it is to do your own exploration of BDSM if you are with a partner. But what about when you aren’t? Does that mean you can’t enjoy the delicious deeds of being kinky? 

No. 

While you are by yourself, explore yourself. Test out the things you may be afraid to say in any sort of relationship or partnership. 

How? I mean, certain things you can’t do…

Well, yes, you can’t dominate yourself or do acts of service for yourself. But you can try many other things, such as:

1. Self bondage. 

It won’t be anything elaborate and make sure you have a pair of scissors nearby, but you can tie yourself up. 

2. Sensory play.

Think of it as a “treat yourself” masturbation session. Really enjoy each sensation.

3. Self spanking.

There are machines for this, but…you can always spank your naughty little ass yourself. There is no shame and if you’re a spanko, you’ve already tried it. 

4. Butt plugs 

Wearing an unseen butt plug around work or at the grocery store is very hot. You will likely have a really good orgasm when you get home. 

Those are just a few things you can try. As you become more comfortable with your body you will explore more. 

Read up on all information you can, watch lots of porn, and remain open minded…after all it’s just you! 

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