BDSM truly

I don’t know if everyone knows this. They should, but I think when people hear submissive they think they can do whatever they want. 

That is not true. 

I am a very stubborn, intelligent, and strong woman. I do identify as a submissive with some Dominant tendencies…I’m sure there is a label for that, but I haven’t found the right one to fit me. I can be very submissive, if you are the right person. I cannot be forced into submission. You must earn my respect as a sexual lover before I give myself to you. 

Why am I talking about this? Because there are some Doms and subs who think that submissives aren’t strong and aren’t in control. 

Believe me, I am in control. I want to be control of every corner of my life, unless I know that you know how to take control of me in the bedroom. 

Submissives, listen up, being submissive doesn’t mean you allow your Dom to do whatever they want. It means you tell them everything you want and they decide when, where, and how. 

You may get to the point where the Dom wants to try new things, but they should only do new things once both of you know that you trust each other enough for that. 

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5 thoughts on “BDSM truly

      1. True, another thing people get wrong about submissive is that people seem to think that we are submissive to everybody. That’s not the truth, yes I’m a bratty submissive but I’m only “his” bratty submissive.

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