Pleasure and pain. That’s what BDSM is , right?
Pleasure. To give pleasure. To receive pleasure.
No matter what role I take, my foremost goal with my partner is pleasure. I have few things that turn me off and so am pretty willing to experiment or do whatever they want me to do.
My motto is : If it pleases them , it pleases me.
I think it’s ultimately everyone’s goal to please the other person….but I think there are some who are better at receiving pleasure than giving it. And this doesn’t mean just the obvious pleasure, but whatever the partner wants.
Giving pleasure is a huge turn on for me. It may have to do something with me being a submissive…but really …I think it works if I were Domme.
Of course….I like being mischievous and teasing my partner before giving them what they want….unless it’s something I can’t wait for either.