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Image result for  bdsm gagsGag-To restrict the use of the mouth by inserting a gag, in various textures (i.e., cloth, leather, ball gag, etc.). When using gags, it is important to remember that these only be worn for short periods of time. This form of play can be dangerous.

 

 

 

Image result for bdsm gates of hellGates of Hell – A type of cock ring worn around the base of the testicles and penis to restrict blood flow to the penis during erotic scening. Specially designed, this type of cock ring is usually made of metal and has several rings attached together, ranging from the largest at the base and going smaller toward the tip.

Genital Sex – To cause an orgasm through the genital area, done strictly to the genital area with any body part or through the use of toys.

Genitorture Torture of the genitals.

Gimp-submissive; gay male submissive

Given Away – Where a Dominant releases a sub to another Dominant, without exchange of favors.

Golden Shower – Play which involves urinating on one’s submissive or vice versa.

Gun Play – Scenes involving the use of firearms. It should be noted here: Gun Play is a dangerous form of play and should not be entered into lightly. Serious consequences could occur from such play and it is not recommended, It is also considered illegal.

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Hair PullingPulling of one’s hair for the purpose of pain / humiliation. Used often in heavy scening.

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Handkerchief codes-Visible signs to indicate to others your area of BDSM interest; a color worn on the left indicates a top, on the right indicates a bottom.

Image result for bdsm handcuffsHandcuffs-Narrow metal cuffs with a pivoting hinge and a ratcheted locking mechanism, connected to each other by a short length of chain and often used to restrain people’s wrists together. Commonly used by law enforcement and security personnel.

Hard limitsWhat someone absolutely will not do; non-negotiable

Harem – To have more than one submissive in a scene or in daily life (i.e., the Dominant has a “harem” of women / men). A common occurrence in the Mormon religion, and in polyamorous relationships.

Image result for bdsm harnessImage result for bdsm harnessHarness – Bondage apparatus consisting of a network of straps designed to form a web over a large area of the body or head. Well-known leather body harness for wearing around the upper torso. Harnesses can be constructed from a variety of materials. Some harnesses built properly are used in suspension.

Hot oilsThe use of warmed oils for massaging or various other uses for erotic type play.  Be careful of oil temperature before applying to another’s skin, test on your own forearm first. This form of play can be dangerous.

House slave A submissive, who may often live with the dominant, who acts as a maid, cleaning up the dominant’s house and performing other household errands, often while nude. A house slave may sometimes be punished for failure to perform satisfactorarily; with this form of D/s, sexual submission may or may not be part of the arrangement.

Humiliation play-Sexual arousal from activities which include an element of humiliation, shame, or embarrassment for one or more of the participants.Humiliation play is a relatively unusual taste that is often very difficult to explain to someone who doesn’t understand it. While humiliation play may carry little or no risk of injury, it can be psychologically very intense, and is sometimes the psychological equivalent of edge play.

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Ice Play – ice used on nipples or genital areas for desensitization of senses or nerves.

Impact playPart of sensation play, dealing with impact such as whips, riding crops, paddles, floggers, etc.

Image result for bdsm dildo on a stick deviceImpalement-A practice in which a person is bound, usually while standing, and penetrated anally or vaginally with a dildo attached to the end of a fixed pole or rod in such a way that the person cannot escape or remove himself or herself from the dildo.

Immobilization –  Any form of bondage technically immobilizes someone; however, this term is usually used for extreme forms of bondage where the submissive literally cannot move a muscle. Not recommended for long periods of time, and is dangerous.

Infantilism – Scening where the submissive assumes the role of a child / infant and is treated as such (i.e., diaper wearing, spankings, standing in corner, etc.).

Interrogations – Term meaning question, systematically and formally. Commonly performed in “police interrogations”; police-type scening. Commonly used for humiliation.