Educate yourself

Whenever I looked up "BDSM" there is always one article about the difference between abuse and BDSM or how "vanillas" will never except us.  It scares me to think there are still people who abuse others under the name of BDSM. This is why I always make a point to tell my readers to be …

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BDSM vs. Abuse

  BDSM vs. would think that maybe this might be easy to figure out the difference...however for some people, it's not that obvious. The most important thing to remember is consent. If both parties did not give consent then it is abuse.  However, it may be difficult to know whether you consented to it or not. …

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